
Abbot Hugh Allan, O.Praem.
Apostolic Administrator of the Falkland Islands and Superior of the Ecclesiastical Mission to St. Helena, Tristan Da Cunha and Ascension Island
Pastoral Letter for the First Sunday of Advent 2021
Dear friends in Christ,
Here in the UK, with the different “lockdowns” over the past year, smart phones, ipads, computers of all different shapes and sizes have been a God send for so many people in keeping contact with loved ones. However, in an age when we can text, tweet, swipe and ping people and get an immediate response, it is perhaps a little hard for us to talk about the nature of prayer, of waiting on God. In a culture where we demand immediate responses, where we can press a button and see loved ones on the other side of the world, how do we comprehend the need to say in the Our Father prayer “they kingdom come, thy will be done”?
Advent means coming or to come. Advent is really about two comings. It is waiting and watching for the coming of the Christ child—new life, new birth, new hope coming into our world and our lives. It is the fulfilment of God’s promises. It is also waiting and watching for the coming of the end times when the fullness of God’s kingdom will be present. These are both future events and at the same time a present reality. They are already and not yet. Both of these advents are about the coming together of humanity and divinity.
The four Sundays of Advent are too often seen as the countdown to Christmas, as the time when we get things ready for Christmas. Advent is not the time when we prepare for Christmas but the time in which we are being prepared for Christmas. Advent is a time when the Church stands up in the face of the busyness of life, shopping, parties, cooking, and decorating and asks us to slow down, be still, and be quiet. We are to keep awake, looking and listening for the God who is always coming to us. We are called to prepare the way of the Lord. We watch and reflect on who we are. We look for the Christ in all the unexpected places – in the stuff of everyday life, in the poor, the hungry, and the needy. We live with expectancy and anticipation of God’s presence in our lives.
Waiting in prayer is at the heart of a healthy relationship with God. A healthy relationship is not one where we make instant demands for the other to do exactly what we want immediately. No friendship works like that. When we pray, we ask the father to hear our prayer through his Son Jesus Christ, but in friendship with Christ we are then confident that what needs to happen will then be done. A healthy friendship builds upon what we need, not what we may want in a passing moment. I may want to survive on a diet of chocolate and fizzy drinks, but a good friend knows I need something else!
Our willingness to reach out for help, but then accept the will of God, is at the heart of prayer. Remember that God will always answer our prayers; I believe this with all my heart – when we pray and intercede for others, God hears our prayers. However, sometimes God says no. Now this is something we are unprepared for. We make a “wish list” of what we want and then demand that God makes it happen. God is not Father Christmas. We cannot make demands of God, but we place before him all our wants and He answers according to our needs.
It is perhaps the hardest thing in the world for us to do, but the most important prayer we can say each day is “thy kingdom come, thy will be done.” To abandon ourselves to God’s mercy and providence. It is hard for us to do, but it is how we can change the world. A wise old priest I know used to always say “Do not think that you can leave the world a better place; you can only leave the world a better person. It is that which makes the world a better place.” In prayer, we invite the Lord to let His will be done in us, in me. It is then we can truly let our own friendship with Christ help us pray for the needs of the whole world.
There is no app, or tweet or emoji that is going to help you to pray for others. It is simply placing your every need in the presence of God and bringing all those we love, and all those we find it difficult to love, to the abiding mercy of God. To pray “thy kingdom come, thy will be done” – and to say with all our hearts, let that will be done in me, so that your kingdom may come in me.
This Advent, may we wait with longing and hope for the coming of Christ into all our lives.
Be assured of my daily prayers for you all. Please God, I look forward to seeing you all again soon.
Please pray for me, too.
With every blessing,
+ Hugh
Abbot Hugh Allan, o.praem.

